Thursday, October 09, 2008

New Motto

This last week I watched an Oprah show. I used to love Oprah. Now I watch her cautiously. I am not too excited about her values and her beliefs. I believe the only way to heaven is through Jesus Christ. I do not believe this is something I can do myself or even using the power within to get there.

That being said, I do like some of her shows. This last week she had a show on etiquette. At first I thought "boring!" I am nice person with a courteous attitude. Well, I started to realize I have some work to do. A couple of the items that struck me was a convience store clerk being interviewed. She talked about how she gets blamed for things that are not in her control. She also said that people will come into the store talking on their cell phone, conduct their business and never even acknowledge her. I thought ""Oh my goodness-I am sure I do that." Not so much so that the person behind the counter means nothing to me but I am just too wrapped up in my own busyness to acknowledge other people sometimes. So, I am vowing to not use my cell phone and when conducting business with any clerk I will look them in the eye, ask them how they are doing, smile and say "Have a nice day." Hopefully someone who might be having a bad day will come away feeling a little better that I have noticed them.

One other thing that I need to work on is conversations with waitresses/waiters. I am not real comfortable striking up a conversation with strangers but I have realized that a little bit of small talk and kindness will go a long way. I really want to work on being more aware of the people around me and making sure everywhere I go I am leaving some kindness behind.

4 comments:

Regina said...

I really like this post.
We actually talked about Oprah's views today in Sunday School Class. We also believe in Jesus Christ not in the things that she believes in.

Good for you for trying to improve in these areas. I hope you make someone's day.
Blessings to you!!
Regina

OziMum said...

I must admit, I have been on the phone a couple of times, but I always, pause to apologies to the counter staff! Does that excuse me?!!!

My phone has a bad habit of ringing at the most inconvenient times!!!

I think it's sad that O seems to have strayed from her core beliefs.

OziMum said...

Hows that house coming along?! Or shouldn't I ask... if it makes you feel any better, ours hasn't budged either!

Rebecca said...

YOU... trouble making small talk????? That I find hard to believe, Miss Rachel. :)

Great post! Very thought-provoking. :)